Originally posted by starblue:
dun get me wrong. i used to have many close guy friends... cos i
grew up in a family of boys, i relate and open up more easily to
them. that is why i always have more close guy friends than gals.
but like i said last time, they.... dropped by the way side one by
one. cos they started acting all weird and everything. so now, i
dunno how to react towards them le.. i am always afraid i
will give the wrong signals lah. or develop a friendship with them
only to ruin it in the end. i dun ever want to let myself rely on
someone, and then lose his support. the feeling of losing direction
and support just sucks big time.
desperate guys will interpret any signals from you as you
wanting them to get into your pants no matter what you do... but
there are certain sincere ones out there...
if u are continuously afraid because of your past, then what are
you going to do in the future?
you can't shut them out totally, and I know you know that for a
fact, neither could you avoid them... you've just gotta face them,
and it is that trial and error you will get to learn who is meant
to be your friends...
there are a majority and a minority group of friends for every
character and personality... certain characters have a lot of
friends even though they do nothing, but certain characters can't
have a lot of friends...
having said these... if the first character have few friends, and
the last character have a lot of friends, they cannot adapt to
their environment, hence leading to distress...
